Is (2+1 = 6) a relational possiblity ?
2+1= 6 ??? I have been reflecting on why Jesus choose the term friend to describe his relationship with his team. I know numerically 2+1=6 does not make sense but instead of thinking about numbers think about it in relational terms, in particular you and me and the various relationships we have with other people.
For example A and B are friends with each other and they are also friends with C. C is able to bring something previously unseen in A's character and personality. Perhaps an 'A' that B has never 'seen' or 'known' before and can only stand back and appreciate. In the same way C's relationship with B reveals and aspect, a strength in B's character that A cannot reveal but can nonetheless enjoy. It is also possible that there also elements in A's personality that only B seems to able to bring out , and visa-versa, to the good and enjoyment of all. (Without wanting to sound too weird but there may be more A's than the 'one' that B and C know) It almost as if there are parts of us (hopefully the best of us) that only certain others can bring out in us - that in a sense they reveal another us, that would not be seen or known without these other people in our lives. (Think of a couple before and after they become parents. There are certain aspects of a partners personality and character that only their children can reveal to the other partner)
Perhaps that is why when Jesus was choosing a relational term to describe the relationships in His ministry team he choose the inclusive term, friends. We all individually, can only draw out certain strengths or aspects of another person's character. It takes a family, a community, a group of friends to bring out and to appreciate all of those aspects that are best in each one of us. In other words it takes everyone to reveal all that is best in anyone.
Community is a God ordained environment designed to highlight the fact that none of us can ever discover the best in us without the rest of us. And that is why in relational terms 2+1 can sometimes = 6.
For example A and B are friends with each other and they are also friends with C. C is able to bring something previously unseen in A's character and personality. Perhaps an 'A' that B has never 'seen' or 'known' before and can only stand back and appreciate. In the same way C's relationship with B reveals and aspect, a strength in B's character that A cannot reveal but can nonetheless enjoy. It is also possible that there also elements in A's personality that only B seems to able to bring out , and visa-versa, to the good and enjoyment of all. (Without wanting to sound too weird but there may be more A's than the 'one' that B and C know) It almost as if there are parts of us (hopefully the best of us) that only certain others can bring out in us - that in a sense they reveal another us, that would not be seen or known without these other people in our lives. (Think of a couple before and after they become parents. There are certain aspects of a partners personality and character that only their children can reveal to the other partner)
Perhaps that is why when Jesus was choosing a relational term to describe the relationships in His ministry team he choose the inclusive term, friends. We all individually, can only draw out certain strengths or aspects of another person's character. It takes a family, a community, a group of friends to bring out and to appreciate all of those aspects that are best in each one of us. In other words it takes everyone to reveal all that is best in anyone.
Community is a God ordained environment designed to highlight the fact that none of us can ever discover the best in us without the rest of us. And that is why in relational terms 2+1 can sometimes = 6.
